ADHD glossary · Family perspectives
Packing list: choose what belongs in this bag
A packing list, in this guide, names the items chosen for a particular bag, trip, or activity. It answers “What are we taking this time?” rather than “What might anyone ever need?” Include the activity and current date so the person packing knows which occasion the list describes.
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A general checklist explains what a check means. A packing list applies that idea to chosen contents. A drop zone is the place where belongings wait; it does not tell you whether this bag contains the items for today's activity. A departure routine describes actions around leaving, not just what goes inside.
Worked example: a collage afternoon
In this invented example, a child is going to a relative's home for a collage afternoon. The host has offered plain paper and glue. The child wants to bring a folder of saved pictures and a pencil case. A parent will carry a separate envelope of family photographs for the host to look at.
They write two bag lists. The child's list contains their picture folder and pencil case; the parent's list contains the envelope. “Bring everything” would hide that division. The host's offered materials are noted as being provided there, not checked as packed in either bag.
The child decides not to take a large sketchbook after trying it in the bag. The list is changed rather than leaving an unchecked box that now means “deliberately not taking.” A sibling offers a sheet of stickers but asks for the unused part back. The child and sibling discuss whether to include it; an offer does not automatically make the sibling responsible for packing it.
On the day, the picture folder is still on the desk. The child marks it as “not packed yet,” then updates the line after putting it in the bag. The list records the bag's current contents, not whether someone has remembered the item in the past.
Copy a bag-specific note
Activity and date:
Bag / person using it:
List updated by / when:
Chosen item | Where it is now | Packed, pending, or removed?
___________ | _______________ | ___________________________
___________ | _______________ | ___________________________
___________ | _______________ | ___________________________
Items another person has agreed to bring:
Items confirmed as provided at the destination:
Borrowed item and agreed return arrangement, if any:
Last-minute change or unanswered question:
Pictures, words, or both can identify the chosen objects. Ask the person using a picture what it means. Keep items separate when they can have different statuses; do not mark a whole bag complete while a known item is still pending.
Keep the list's job limited
A parent can clarify what an activity asks participants to bring while leaving room for a child's choices. Partners can keep separate bags and share only the details needed for a handoff. A grandparent collecting someone needs the current arrangement, not permission to inspect every personal belonging.
Retire items when the activity changes rather than continually extending one master list. This example does not supply health, travel-document, equipment-safety, or emergency requirements. Where an activity has specific instructions, check its actual requirements separately; our collage list does not replace them or guarantee that nothing will be left behind.
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